Yeah. That's My Kid.
There are moments when parenting is pure ecstasy. Yep. You read me right. Ecstasy. Pure unadulterated joy that leaves my heart singing with parental pride.
This is the conversation that G initiated while doing his homework:
G: Mommy, K & K were talking at school today and they both said that they aren't special.
(Now, at this point in the conversation I'm thinking this is a stall tactic to put off homework so I'm only half listening, but if you keep reading you'll see immediately why I tuned in fast!)
G: (exasperated and huffy) I TOLD them that they are very special-more special than they could every know!
Me: And what did they say to that?
G: (very emphatically and with gusto) They said they weren't special because they have sloppy handwriting and don't read well. And I said to them-are you kidding me? You two are WAY smarter than me! You're two of the smartest kids in the class and you should be proud of yourself!
Me: They are both very blessed to have such an encouraging friend. You really have a gift and I'm so happy to hear that you use it to encourage and be an example to those around you.
G: I mean, Mom, I told them that they are meant for something really special, even if they don't know what it is right now. But they are! I just know it! Just because they can't do something as well doesn't mean they aren't special. There are a lot of things that people are better at than me and it doesn't bother me. I know God made me special.
(Now I'm starting to get all misty and I can feel my nose turning red like when I ugly cry)
Me: Maybe they haven't been told in a really long time that God made them each special in their own way. I think maybe tonight when you say your prayers you could include them both- that is a big way that you could help them!
G: I feel sad that they don't think that they are good people and don't like themselves. I feel down sometimes and feel like I'm the weirdest person in our family (random) but I remember that God made me just fine how I am and He makes me smile again. It's really helped me a lot in my life to remember that.
I think my seven year old little boy made the angels in Heaven sing today.
3 comments:
How precious!!! You have one very special little boy there. =)
That's one insightful kid, you have there. You have a reason to be proud, mama!
How touching!
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